Spy girls, I'd really like some advice. I think I've fallen in love with the Fendi Spy... I am selling some of my other bags, and at the end of this month I'll be ready to buy my first Spy. This will be the most I've ever spent on a bag in one hit - so before I do, thought I'd go to you experts for some help So, here are my questions Does the leather get softer with use? Do the handles stretch out (in a good way!) in time? Do you need to treat the bag to prevent rain damage? Is the Spy a day to evening bag? Is it a classic bag (I think this must be the second/third year?) And finally, I carry a briefcase around with me most days - am I going to look too 'bagged up', if I'm using the Spy at the same time (I'm 5'4").... Any help will be great - thanks,ladies!