I really like the look of the Melie but some strap drops on hobo's are kinda short and the bag feels jammed in your armpit and doesn't stay put. I went REALLY old school and bought a pre loved GM bolougne 35. Completely adjustable shoulder strap goes right into a crossbody with only a buckle adjustment and you only have one strap to deal with and a padded shoulder. Its not a popular style due to the age but i really like it.
Is the Triangle Softy in stores already?Have you looked at other hobos?
The Artsy is a classic (of which I own 2 so I am biased) but right now I love the Tuileries and the Triangle Softy. The latter in malletage is to die for!