First, let me just say your new bags are beautiful!!
Secondly, I'm sorry you have to go through this. I had something very similar happen and I met my husband less than a year later so it turned out to actually have been a blessing. And my husband is ten times the man that my ex could ever have hoped to be. I know it feels awful right now but it will get better and you will most likely look back and be grateful that you actually got rid of that loser!