20 Motif "Challenge"

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Mayacamas

Mayacamas

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Hello VCA TPFers.
Question for you: Am I the only one who has issues wearing a 20 motif long? Long story short, I desperately want to wear the 20's, I love the look of long necklaces, but I find that I am, what's the polite word...buxom, the necklace ends up between my girls...not classy or pretty.

Does anyone else have this issue? Any solutions?
Currently I just double the 20 I do have, but I was wondering if maybe I am just 20 Motif challenged.

Thank you,
Maya
 
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I have a big chest so I'm sensitive to that! Do you wear it on bare skin or over a shirt? Over a shirt feels like it slims me and breaks up my upper body a bit.
 
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I have average size ladies and even I find it annoying. I double my 20 or I wear it over a higher necklace smoothing dress (same effect as sports bra). Wearing in outside of collared shirts works too. I prefer the feel of double though and it looks spectacular so enjoy it this way too.
 
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Unfortunately, I put on a lot of weight last year and now also fall into the category of being a bit buxom. I've always had a large bust, which is really noticeable. I like to wear tight-fitting clothes. I usually double layer my 20 motifs because I don't quite like the look of the long necklace and it ends right on my chest. I don't really like it either and I always think it draws unnecessary attention to my breast. However, I see photos of women with a small bust, so it's not a problem there. Even in photos of buxom women, my attention is drawn to the necklace rather than the bust.

Ultimately, I think it emphasises the bust, but very few people really notice it because hardly anyone is interested in other people's clothes in everyday life or has time to think about it. When I wear my 20s as a Y necklace with a lower V neckline, everyone stares at my cleavage. That's why it has to be used very selectively🙈
 
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Mayacamas said:
Hello VCA TPFers.
Question for you: Am I the only one who has issues wearing a 20 motif long? Long story short, I desperately want to wear the 20's, I love the look of long necklaces, but I find that I am, what's the polite word...buxom, the necklace ends up between my girls...not classy or pretty.

Does anyone else have this issue? Any solutions?
Currently I just double the 20 I do have, but I was wondering if maybe I am just 20 Motif challenged.

Thank you,
Maya
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Maya,
Have you tried adding a 5 motif to the 20s? That may help. I have girls, and wear mostly crew-necked shirts. Will try to take some pics.
 
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