Well I received my Medium Ergo tote and it is just too small for my needs. I have been using the large for my stuff and my kids stuff. I don't see myself being able to downgrade stuff anytime soon. The bag is Gorgeous tho in perfect condition. I have decided to stick with my Large Ergo I have even dress her up! This is my first attempt a tying a scarf and it doesn't look as nice as the ones everyone here ties. I will have to keep practicing. I think I may be addicted tho now I want more scarfs and charms to change her up! I found another Coach addiction for me. My DH will be so happy lol.