When I sell an item on feeBay and ship it I keep checking my e-mails to make sure the buyer got it and everything went well. I now expect each transaction to end up as a dispute. I have no trust for feeBay or buyers anymore. My expectation is to be scammed or for there to be a chargeback, or something, depsite my perfect condition items and great descriptions. I do everything by the book, but I am still so paranoid. I am now in the habit of taking photographs at the post office of the package with the postage on it being held by the postal clerk. I then send the photo to the buyer so they know it was sent, along with tracking number. Look at the confidence feeBay has instilled in sellers *sigh*