I was wondering if you all wouldn't mind giving me your 2 cents on the length of the Love Me Midi Handles. I joined the bespoke for the matte grey and have been thinking about what would make that my perfect bag. I think I am really a satchel kind of girl and rarely wear any bag on my shoulders. Although, I will use the messenger strap when I need to be hands free. So, I am toying with the idea of making the handles shorter. Do you think that would destroy the look of the bag?