Hi all. As you know I just got a 'new to me' rose twiggy 3 days ago. Now I have a problem and hope that you will help me out.
The problem is, I feel she dosn't belong to me and this feeling is growing day after day. Last night I was sitting by her side looking at her for a long time, till arround 2am. The color is lovely, the leather is TDF, I know none of my 09 Bbag could compare her for the leather - it has the softest and most creamy feeling I've ever felt, I can't help touching her when she's by my side.
But obviously she's not a brand new bag any more. Looking at the wears on her body I just have a strange feeling, - I don't mind the wears actually because when I'm wearing the bag they're not noticable at all - I don't know how to describe, it just like you are keeping somebody else's baby who you didn't gave birth to. And looking at my other bbags, I feel happy because I know that they're born for me, I'm the only owner of them.
Actually this is the first pre-owned bag I've had, and more accurately this is the first pre-owned item I've ever had, I never had a second-hand anything before and now I realize that the feeling that having a preowned item makes me uncomfortable. I talked to my DH and he said 'well now you've learn a lesson and known that you'd better only buy brand new goodies in the future.'
I feel really upset now. The love for bbag oldies has just been growing on me but it seems that it will end soon because it's almost impossible to find a brand new oldie? ush:
As for the rose twiggy I have no idea what I should do. She's a gem but I know I might put her into the dustbag and not be willing to use her from now on.
If you were me, would you just let her go, to somebody who will really love her? Or do you think I will overcome this strange feeling as it's only because this is my first time dealing with this situation?
Any advice is appreciated. I do need your help. TIA!
The problem is, I feel she dosn't belong to me and this feeling is growing day after day. Last night I was sitting by her side looking at her for a long time, till arround 2am. The color is lovely, the leather is TDF, I know none of my 09 Bbag could compare her for the leather - it has the softest and most creamy feeling I've ever felt, I can't help touching her when she's by my side.
But obviously she's not a brand new bag any more. Looking at the wears on her body I just have a strange feeling, - I don't mind the wears actually because when I'm wearing the bag they're not noticable at all - I don't know how to describe, it just like you are keeping somebody else's baby who you didn't gave birth to. And looking at my other bbags, I feel happy because I know that they're born for me, I'm the only owner of them.
Actually this is the first pre-owned bag I've had, and more accurately this is the first pre-owned item I've ever had, I never had a second-hand anything before and now I realize that the feeling that having a preowned item makes me uncomfortable. I talked to my DH and he said 'well now you've learn a lesson and known that you'd better only buy brand new goodies in the future.'
I feel really upset now. The love for bbag oldies has just been growing on me but it seems that it will end soon because it's almost impossible to find a brand new oldie? ush:
As for the rose twiggy I have no idea what I should do. She's a gem but I know I might put her into the dustbag and not be willing to use her from now on.
If you were me, would you just let her go, to somebody who will really love her? Or do you think I will overcome this strange feeling as it's only because this is my first time dealing with this situation?
Any advice is appreciated. I do need your help. TIA!