I am puzzled by the changes in the control panel. Several people have sent me requests to be a friend. I must be getting really old. What is the point? I send forum friends PMs when I need to and I get them, too. So what is the point of having a "friend" or "contact?" And visitor messages...what the heck is that all about? Do all friends as a group see visitor messages like viewing a comment in a blog? The value of all this escapes me. Vlad? Megs? Jill? Somebody?