The marriage is the important thing not the wedding... The wedding is just a few hours of showing off to the freeloaders that will go to the next wedding and compare your wedding to the next...
There is no respect for the meaning of the wedding anymore, there is this pressure from the magazines, the friends, parents, media, that a couple's wedding must be something like princess Diana's and prince Charles's wedding...
hat is really depressing. but unfortunately im sure he committed suicide for more than that single reason. on that note, why didnt anyone stop her from spending all that money?
The money the owed was the sole reason... They had a big argument the night he commit suicide (about 6 months after the wedding), about the money she spent. He took his car and drove it off a cliff near their house.
A terrible story... I was completely shocked when I heard that this guy committed suicide, and it was just 5 months before my wedding, and let me tell you I completely changed my mind on the wedding ****...
I did have a church wedding, and a party afterwards, but it really costed very little money. We saved most cash, for our honeymoon, and our new house (we moved in 2 years after we got married).
Just don't rush things, that's my advice.