I gave the lg belted hobo to my mom. She is very thankful but she told me that she isn't too happy with how the belt sits on that bag. she either wanted to exchange it for the belted tote or the red patent hobo. She is having a hard time deciding. does anyone have the tote in the plum? do you like it? does the belt stay in place? does anyone have red patent hobo? Iknow everyonr loved it when it first came out...do you still? how does it wear?thx