Ah I faced almost the same dilemma when getting my black reissue. It was either the black reissue with gold hw or metallic black with silver hw. And trust me, most of my accessories are in silver/white gold and I am MUCH more a silver person.
But what I realised is that if you're gonna get a matte BLACK reissue, then the gold hw makes the bag stand out SO much more. Of course some pple think the gold is too bling (I've had a MALE colleague comment on that) but I don't care. Once I tried on the black with gold hw, I literally couldn't put it down. It was love at first sight for me and I've never regretted choosing it over silver hw.