I really want to get a Muse but I'm really unsure about buying a large or an oversized one. I received my mini patent downtown bag , am getting a medium tribute tote and want a muse but sizing is a dilemma. I'm 5'3" and have a small frame. I want a bag that is large but not HUGE - I'm turning to you ladies for advice ... BTW, the muse will be regular leather as both my downtowns are patent, if that helps .