Assuming that you have tried all possible options (without having to shell out the extra $) without success I can see that you are still uncomfortable and in pain.
And honestly, it's not worth it to deal with.
If you have any children (or plan to), there is that possibility of keeping it for them.
However, if there is no other reason to want to keep the bracelets, I think it's time to sit down with your husband and talk about it.
Him being upset should not override nor disregard your discomfort and pain. Emphasize that his gesture is still very much loved and appreciated by you and that the fact that the bracelets did not work out is
no one's fault. Make it clear that you understand how important the gift is to him
but also to you. That this is not you making a light or spontaneous decision; that you tried everything you could think of and thought about this long and hard. And this isn't how either of you wanted it to turn out.
I know you feel bad but things like this happen and it is okay.
Regarding this:
I think it might be compressing the nerve cause carpel tunnel syndromes I wear it on my left (non dominant) hand. It is a size 16. My wrist measures 14.5 cm I tried it on my right wrist, but that wrist is quite a bit bigger so I’d doesn’t fit at all. My husband also bought me a 15 small JUC that just sits in my jewelry box because it can’t be returned either. I don’t know how to sell them. I’m so upset and I know my husband will be very upset as well.
Some things to
think about:
- have you ever injured your wrist/hands before? (a fall, an accident, sports, dog bite, etc.)
- do you work in a field that requires you to use your hands a lot (especially in a repetitive motion) like being at a keyboard for long periods of time?
- are there any household chores or anything you do in your daily life that gives you a similar experience?
- like
@kimber418 said, is this pain/discomfort directly correlated to only your love bracelet and not also other items (other bracelets, watches) that you wear on that wrist?
- when you sleep, do you sleep on your side? do you move a lot in your sleep? do you tend to sleep on your hands or lean against your wrist in a sleeping position? (this is definitely me, I wake up with marks from my love bracelet)
- In relations to your medical history: do you have a limited range of motion? any history of inflammation in your joints? Any previous surgeries in relations to you hands? (probably unlikely but a standard to ask.)
And when I say
think, you don't have to answer on this thread. Just some questions to help trigger your memory or thought process
Hope that helps, good luck!