To my knowledge, Harry did not meet Mr. Markle. Rightfully, imo, Thomas sees it as a weakness in Harry.
ETA: in my family, that sort of thing reflects on the groom’s upbringing.
Thomas Markle has asked Britain's Prince Harry to "man up" and meet him, as he spoke about how much he misses his daughter Meghan.
www.independent.ie
Meghan Markle's father Thomas hasn't met her husband or son yet -- and the way things are going, there's a good chance he never will.
www.cheatsheet.com
Nothing about Prince Harry’s marriage to
Meghan, Duchess of Sussex has been typical, from the day they met to now, two years after they tied the knot. This unlikely couple overcame so many obstacles to stay together and now have begun forging a new path that’s separate from the rest of the royal family. Even the simplest rites of passage like
meeting the in-laws haven’t gone as planned.