I love them both!! I was in the same boat as you actually! The white is stunning and imo a little more “muted” since the hardware pairs nicely against the neutral shade. I tend to wear mostly dark colors too and I loved that pop of “color”. In the end I went with black in the small size because I want to use it as an everyday bag, but I know I’ll end up getting the white next - it’s just too pretty! Lol that doesn’t help much, but honestly you can’t go wrong with either! And by the way they both look so good on you!