Interesting topic. I have a hypothesis (those who disagree please remember it’s my opinion only): society deals badly with women putting themselves first, spending (very often their own money) on items not categorised as utility (car, housing, broadly kids’ needs or holiday). Think bizarrely it’s accepted to spend small amounts on looks (that often add up to 000s over time) but when a woman enters a territory of spoiling herself for big money (kind of luxury car/watches/gadgets space for men), it’s commented. That’s what happened to me in the UK (got to the point when my husband was called a sugar daddy, despite me earning really good money,being promoted, having 3 masters, paying always myself for fashion).
As Eastern European (living in the UK) can’t though think about the other side: in my country of origin people (erm women) comment and judge you the opposite way - if you don’t do Botox and other procedures, don’t do nails, facials, don’t dress up you’re seen as neglected/not looked after. That’s painful and harsh on many levels as well.
As Eastern European (living in the UK) can’t though think about the other side: in my country of origin people (erm women) comment and judge you the opposite way - if you don’t do Botox and other procedures, don’t do nails, facials, don’t dress up you’re seen as neglected/not looked after. That’s painful and harsh on many levels as well.
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