How do you paddington owners deal with the heaviness of the bag? I have a Paddington bag and Paddington buyers tote which are large enough as an everyday bag for me. which is why I bought them. But walking around downtown (Im an actor so I am always running from place to place) it gets so tiring and heavy. Plus im pretty petite too. My shoulders ache so much after carrying it all day. So I ended up having to go to a chiropractor who told me that I need to get rid of the bags right away as they were doing disastrous things to my spine. Has anyone else had this problem? I also see other petite people (aka Nicole Ritchie, Kate Bosworth) carry the Paddington but it seems fine for them. What do you think?