This is comforting to know I am not the only one.
My mom sent me a Harry and David gift box that she sent to all of her clients. No note, no return text, no call. No surprise.
Family is asking for expensive gifts because they know what I make. Greedy and disgusting. I am ready for the day to be over with. Peace to all experiencing something similar
I called the meanest narcisisst in my family "old" and asked her to start behaving like a grandparent is supposed to behave Did the trick. Got an ugly Email., got called names but: Had wonderfull holidays.The family and so on. I personally hate Christmas. How do you do?
Annoying in-laws, greedy family members, obnoxious people at the party... Have at it.
I see exactly what you mean. Not all people gift what they want to receive, a lot of people are like you. I remember I used to hate the pressure around the holiday season so all my Christmas shopping was done by September... I used to always listen for crumbs and tell tell signs all year round to find out what so and so really wanted but wouldn't get for themselves for Christmas. ( Because it was to "silly" or too "selfish" or too "extravagant".) Sometimes you really hit the target and you are truly happy as a gift giver.Someone once said you give gifts you want yourself. I can see that sometimes but I try to listen to what people say they like and surprise them. I love it when they can surprise me in the same way!
I worked holiday retail for several years and found some of it sad. People spending money because they feel they have to get so and so a gift because they gift them. Right before the actual day of the holiday the store is full of men and one year sadly one said he realized his wife had more gifts under the tree for him than he for her so he needed a few more. How sad is that! Maybe # of gifts isn't meaningful to the thought or expensive items can come in small packages. I don't like the tit-for-tat.
That sounds like an interesting story I would love to know the details. It's amazing how efficient it can be when you call a spade a spade. All of a sudden, a rock is lifted off your chest and come what may... you just feel better for saying what was on your mind for a long time and moving on. No mater the end result, it's liberating, I've done it a few times.I called the meanest narcisisst in my family "old" and asked her to start behaving like a grandparent is supposed to behave Did the trick. Got an ugly Email., got called names but: Had wonderfull holidays.