Johanna: the Dooney outlets are listed on the Dooney site. Most of them will ship handbags, except clearance. It doesn't matter if they are cross country from you or in the same state. Not all handbags are shippable, the rules change every month, and even if a style is shippable, not all color are shippable. But any outlet can check to see if what you want can be shipped and tell you the price. If they have it in stock they will ship it. If not, you can check with other outlets. Dooney outlets charge $10 to ship a box (1 or more handbags), and tax depending upon the state they and you are in. Return policies are confusing and vary depending upon how the handbag is classified, so be sure to ask for details. Generally it's a store credit only, except clearance which is final sale.
It's always better to see a bag in person and check it out to be sure it meets your standards. There are some very helpful sales associates in some of the outlets who will check over a handbag for you before they ship it. But you have to ask and tell them what you want them to look at (zippers, stitching, even coloration, even pebbling or smoothness, etc.). It's best not to call on a weekend, when the outlets are busy, or right before closing. And it also helps to have the Dooney style number to be sure you and the sales associate are talking about the same handbag. A lot of style names are very similar and not all sales associates are as good as some of them.
Of course, if you can visit the outlet, it's all the more fun. And if there is something you want you can call ahead to see if they have it and even ask them to hold it for you for a day.