Interesting thread please execuse my rant its been bothering me for two years now!!
My in-laws and many in my culture believe that wearing gold is good for little girls.. As it helps with being fertile! (I am sorry i dont believe that and even if its true i dont care since safety of my child comes first! If God wills she'll have kids of her own and if God wills she wont then no gold dangling peiece will change that) my in laws always made a big deal out of me not piercing my little girls ears. I told them thousands of times i dress her up with pendants and bracelets only in outings as i dont want them to get in her way while playing. But wont let her suffer sleeping in pain with earings (i know how it feels like) and wont certaily be oblidged to take them off her daily for that matter, i have much more important things in her life to worry about and take care of.
That feels better now that i wrote it down thank you dears!!
My in-laws and many in my culture believe that wearing gold is good for little girls.. As it helps with being fertile! (I am sorry i dont believe that and even if its true i dont care since safety of my child comes first! If God wills she'll have kids of her own and if God wills she wont then no gold dangling peiece will change that) my in laws always made a big deal out of me not piercing my little girls ears. I told them thousands of times i dress her up with pendants and bracelets only in outings as i dont want them to get in her way while playing. But wont let her suffer sleeping in pain with earings (i know how it feels like) and wont certaily be oblidged to take them off her daily for that matter, i have much more important things in her life to worry about and take care of.
That feels better now that i wrote it down thank you dears!!