So here's my handbag journey.
When I got my first "real" job many years ago, I bought a spectacular bright red Marc Jacobs Blake satchel and a matching pinky-beige wallet. I wore that bag for all purposes (work, play, travel) for 5 years. It was my only bag, and it was all I needed. I loved it to death.
Fast forward . . . I leave the corporate world, I teach yoga, I use mostly athletic bags, I start having kids, I get a diaper bag, the diaper bag becomes my only purse for ANOTHER 5 years. (THE HORROR.)
Mother's Day last year, my husband got me a LV Speedy 30. I hadn't had a designer bag in forever, and it was SUCH a pleasure to carry it. Like my MJ bag, I carried this one in all contexts, for all purposes, every day, for a year.
And then it began . . .
I enjoyed my LV so much (so lightweight; love how monogram canvas goes with everything) that I thought, wouldn't it be nice to have a similar, but smaller, cross body bag for walking around & going out? Got the LV Favorite PM. Began obsessing about a Neverfull, because it seemed SO convenient for summertime, and the DA print is gorg. Got the Neverfull. In the process of researching the Neverfull, I discovered Balenciaga. OH CRAP. Got a classic black City; also got a delicious pre-owned Day for traveling and kinda throwing around. Got a couple of SLGs, as you do. Now I've just ordered another bag on my wish list, the Chanel Medallion Tote. *pops champagne*
Now, all this might sound like nothing more than a hedonistic shopping spree, but really, I'm a woman on a mission here. Now that I'm out of the diaper-bag era, I've been taking better care of myself in every way, and part of that has been refining my wardrobe so that truly every piece works for me in a functional, aesthetic, and creative sense. I've become more of a minimalist, believe it or not, and I'm realizing how important it is to exercise discipline so that I don't own anything that is just *taking up space* and not actively enriching my life.
Which brings us to my bag collection! I now have 6 premier handbags and 2 SLGs, all collected more or less within the last year (and all but 1 since January). I want 3 more - a Balenciaga clutch (for fancy things, obvs), a Balenciaga Velo (to have a roomy cross body option), and another Neverfull (in Damier Ebene, because the Neverfull is THE most useful bag on Earth, and I'd love a darker print for various reasons - indestructibility, aesthetics, etc.). And then . . . that's it. Really, that's it.
I feel like a collection of these 9 bags is good. It's manageable. It truly covers all the bases in my lifestyle and compliments every aspect of my particular "look." But I also realize I'm at a tipping point! Buying a lot of high-priced, high-end bags in a short period of time, besides being expensive, is kind of psychologically . . . weird, no?? I don't want "the bag hunt" to be a long-term lifestyle, and I really do think I'll be "bag content" once the last few items are checked off my wish list. But . . . doesn't everyone think that??? LOL!
So I'm sharing with you, dear handbag enthusiasts, because I figure you're the only ones who will understand or care: I'm at The Tipping Point and genuinely don't want to fall over the cliff into handbag COLLECTION. I simply want to round out my wardrobe and be able to reach for a bag that works for me and brings me joy no matter where I'm going or what I'm doing. And I just wondered . . . have any of you found yourselves at a similar crossroads? Where you have all you need, and you know it, and you either just STOP or dive headfirst into the madness? I'd love to hear.
P.S. I just gifted that well-worn red Marc Jacobs to my sister, and she's thrilled. It's about to get a second tour of duty! And the wallet? I'm still using it!! *clinks glass*
When I got my first "real" job many years ago, I bought a spectacular bright red Marc Jacobs Blake satchel and a matching pinky-beige wallet. I wore that bag for all purposes (work, play, travel) for 5 years. It was my only bag, and it was all I needed. I loved it to death.
Fast forward . . . I leave the corporate world, I teach yoga, I use mostly athletic bags, I start having kids, I get a diaper bag, the diaper bag becomes my only purse for ANOTHER 5 years. (THE HORROR.)
Mother's Day last year, my husband got me a LV Speedy 30. I hadn't had a designer bag in forever, and it was SUCH a pleasure to carry it. Like my MJ bag, I carried this one in all contexts, for all purposes, every day, for a year.
And then it began . . .
I enjoyed my LV so much (so lightweight; love how monogram canvas goes with everything) that I thought, wouldn't it be nice to have a similar, but smaller, cross body bag for walking around & going out? Got the LV Favorite PM. Began obsessing about a Neverfull, because it seemed SO convenient for summertime, and the DA print is gorg. Got the Neverfull. In the process of researching the Neverfull, I discovered Balenciaga. OH CRAP. Got a classic black City; also got a delicious pre-owned Day for traveling and kinda throwing around. Got a couple of SLGs, as you do. Now I've just ordered another bag on my wish list, the Chanel Medallion Tote. *pops champagne*
Now, all this might sound like nothing more than a hedonistic shopping spree, but really, I'm a woman on a mission here. Now that I'm out of the diaper-bag era, I've been taking better care of myself in every way, and part of that has been refining my wardrobe so that truly every piece works for me in a functional, aesthetic, and creative sense. I've become more of a minimalist, believe it or not, and I'm realizing how important it is to exercise discipline so that I don't own anything that is just *taking up space* and not actively enriching my life.
Which brings us to my bag collection! I now have 6 premier handbags and 2 SLGs, all collected more or less within the last year (and all but 1 since January). I want 3 more - a Balenciaga clutch (for fancy things, obvs), a Balenciaga Velo (to have a roomy cross body option), and another Neverfull (in Damier Ebene, because the Neverfull is THE most useful bag on Earth, and I'd love a darker print for various reasons - indestructibility, aesthetics, etc.). And then . . . that's it. Really, that's it.
I feel like a collection of these 9 bags is good. It's manageable. It truly covers all the bases in my lifestyle and compliments every aspect of my particular "look." But I also realize I'm at a tipping point! Buying a lot of high-priced, high-end bags in a short period of time, besides being expensive, is kind of psychologically . . . weird, no?? I don't want "the bag hunt" to be a long-term lifestyle, and I really do think I'll be "bag content" once the last few items are checked off my wish list. But . . . doesn't everyone think that??? LOL!
So I'm sharing with you, dear handbag enthusiasts, because I figure you're the only ones who will understand or care: I'm at The Tipping Point and genuinely don't want to fall over the cliff into handbag COLLECTION. I simply want to round out my wardrobe and be able to reach for a bag that works for me and brings me joy no matter where I'm going or what I'm doing. And I just wondered . . . have any of you found yourselves at a similar crossroads? Where you have all you need, and you know it, and you either just STOP or dive headfirst into the madness? I'd love to hear.
P.S. I just gifted that well-worn red Marc Jacobs to my sister, and she's thrilled. It's about to get a second tour of duty! And the wallet? I'm still using it!! *clinks glass*