I believe that most tPFers would agree the ground is NOT a good place for our babied bags, I'd rather balance them on my head (lol) rather than let my bags sit on the dirty ground, and this experience really made me super furious.
So I was waiting with my friends at a restaurant while the waiters cleared a table for us, we were chatting on the couches in the waiting area, nobody else was sitting there so I placed my saffiano tote next to me on the empty seat. I wasn't paying attention to people coming and going, until I heard a VERY loud FLOP right next to me, I looked up and was stunned to find that a total stranger had just picked up my bag, dropped it on the ground (it was rough tile!!), sat her butt down where it was and acted like nothing had happened!
I was so shocked by her behaviour that I sat there gaping at her group, my friend reacted first and asked her why she touched my belongings, and said - in an even tone with no snobbishness whatsoever - that the rough floor would scratch my bag and that she should not have been so careless, the girl and her friends got extremely offended for some reason and raised their voices at us, saying things like "so you think your bag's better than us?" We were so appalled, and tried to reason with them that they could've just asked me to remove my bag and I would've gladly obliged, instead of touching my stuff without permission, they scoffed at us and called us... get this: "stuck up good for nothing trust fund babies."
OMFG.
Finally the staff intervened and asked them to calm down, but it still ruined our entire evening, didn't even enjoy my steak.
Has this kind of thing ever happened to you guys?? Strangers being rude and judgemental based on what we carry on our arms is just sad, mean and stupid.
So I was waiting with my friends at a restaurant while the waiters cleared a table for us, we were chatting on the couches in the waiting area, nobody else was sitting there so I placed my saffiano tote next to me on the empty seat. I wasn't paying attention to people coming and going, until I heard a VERY loud FLOP right next to me, I looked up and was stunned to find that a total stranger had just picked up my bag, dropped it on the ground (it was rough tile!!), sat her butt down where it was and acted like nothing had happened!
I was so shocked by her behaviour that I sat there gaping at her group, my friend reacted first and asked her why she touched my belongings, and said - in an even tone with no snobbishness whatsoever - that the rough floor would scratch my bag and that she should not have been so careless, the girl and her friends got extremely offended for some reason and raised their voices at us, saying things like "so you think your bag's better than us?" We were so appalled, and tried to reason with them that they could've just asked me to remove my bag and I would've gladly obliged, instead of touching my stuff without permission, they scoffed at us and called us... get this: "stuck up good for nothing trust fund babies."
OMFG.
Finally the staff intervened and asked them to calm down, but it still ruined our entire evening, didn't even enjoy my steak.
Has this kind of thing ever happened to you guys?? Strangers being rude and judgemental based on what we carry on our arms is just sad, mean and stupid.