My true feelings: I've got 30cm and 35cm Birkins and a 32cm HAC, and I wish Hermes made a 32cm Birkin. The 30cm is too small, the 35cm is too big and the 32cm is too tall and the handles are too short. Why the heck doesn't Hermes make a 32cm with the same width as the HAC, but not so tall and with the same length handles as the 30cm Birkin? What's so difficult about that?
^ hmmm. I'm not an Epsom fan either. It sounds like you just need a 32 in a different leather. Find one in chevre or Swift and it's a totally different bag. I'd return it. These bags are too expensive to settle for. ]
Also, have you tried the 37cm Bolide? Might be a good option for a larger bag, too.