I think that bag is beautiful! It's more a shopping bag for me. If you like a bag for every occasion I would go for a Medium Veneta. You can wear it for every day but also for dinners.
I'm not sure if I look overwhelmed by this bag. It's almost like the LV Neverfull my SA suggested these two as a exchange plus some additional funds
Or the original bag
Princess
The Bella is a great bag, but it is an open bag.
The rete looks great on you but I can understand your concern regarding the size...I found it to be LARGE as well.
The bella is my favorite bag so I would go for that one for everyday use and use the balance of the funds for a new wallet,cosmetic case, etc. The bella fits perfectly on the shoulder with or without a coat. It can hold a lot! I saw someone today with the nero and it looked beautiful on her.
Decisions..decisions...
I have the small cross body in the junior color( it doesn't sound like the one you are looking at) as well as the Bella and I love them both!Im leaning towards the Bella in the same blue color and a cross body which I do not have in Walnut....there is one bag not on the site that I saw at the boutique (pic) tomorrow in that same blue is sore leather with texture on the sides and a removable strap for shoulder or cross body it is full closure.....decisions decisions
I have the small cross body in the junior color( it doesn't sound like the one you are looking at) as well as the Bella and I love them both!
Another bag to try would be the memory tote in blue. It is shorter and less deep than the rete tote and a little pricier too. I struggled with the same decisions and finally decided on the memory tote in blue and I am very happy with the size and the way it feels on my shoulder. It took some getting used to though.
We must have the same great taste in bags! Good Luck.
The most recent one you've posted is a beauty. I'm normally not a fan of compartment bags but this is quite striking.