Hello everyone... here's my story:
I married my high school sweetheart and have been together 17 years and have two children. I can't even say if I was happy at least one year we were together. We were teen parents with different background and goals. We both came from broken families and thought we were doing the right thing by staying together. However, after many years of sticking by him through years of unemployment, alcoholism, substance abuse and even jail time due to the latter, I am just spent. We talked about the "D" word last year and decided on it; however, a year went by before you know it. He has been trying the last few months, but I recently discovered that he is still dependent on substance. I have lost complete trust in him many years ago; however, I continue to hope... I am through. My children deserve better, heck - I deserve better. I am afraid to go through the divorce process, I need some encouragement...
Thank you all...
I married my high school sweetheart and have been together 17 years and have two children. I can't even say if I was happy at least one year we were together. We were teen parents with different background and goals. We both came from broken families and thought we were doing the right thing by staying together. However, after many years of sticking by him through years of unemployment, alcoholism, substance abuse and even jail time due to the latter, I am just spent. We talked about the "D" word last year and decided on it; however, a year went by before you know it. He has been trying the last few months, but I recently discovered that he is still dependent on substance. I have lost complete trust in him many years ago; however, I continue to hope... I am through. My children deserve better, heck - I deserve better. I am afraid to go through the divorce process, I need some encouragement...
Thank you all...