My 23 y/o DD was in a parking lot yesterday- She was in a parking spot where the spot ahead of hers was empty, she pulled through, and there was a women driving who wanted to park in that spot and thought that DD was taking it. DD tried motioning that she was leaving but the woman continued honking. DD tried to turn out to get out quickly and swiped the car next to her.
DD has never been in an accident, pulled over for speeding, etc. The witnesses told her to leave her information. She parked the car in another spot, started getting the information down, mustve had an irrational fear come over her and ( very very foolishly) left. What made her leave when she KNEW that people had her license plate number and that the police would be called, I have no idea. She called the insurance company on the way home who told her to call the police and explain to them that she panicked and left. By the time she had gotten home, the police had already called and told her to come to the station with her information.
She is extremely remorseful and took full responsibility at the police station. She has been given 2 citations: a) failure to leave information and b) failure to locate driver and will have to appear in court for the judge to decide her punishment. We were told these were not misdemeanors or felony charges, and that they are considered traffic tickets.
She was absolutely wrong for leaving, and I am furious. The costs to repair the scratches are minimal compared to how much fines and lawyer fees will now cost. DD is a responsible girl, so this is very uncharacteristic of her, and Im not sure what came over her. She tends to panic in high stress situations, but this was just a ding on a car.
Im wondering if anyone knows what exactly happens how? In terms of what possible punishments may be, points, fines, lawyer fees, how this will effect her record ( she has an otherwise squeaky clean record). How much a lawyer may be able to help? Another concern is that DD is in grad school for a health profession, and how that will be effected
I tried posting on another parenting forum for advice, but posters began bashing DD, and I was not able to get much help.
I am hoping for any advice as we have never dealt with anything like this before.
DD has never been in an accident, pulled over for speeding, etc. The witnesses told her to leave her information. She parked the car in another spot, started getting the information down, mustve had an irrational fear come over her and ( very very foolishly) left. What made her leave when she KNEW that people had her license plate number and that the police would be called, I have no idea. She called the insurance company on the way home who told her to call the police and explain to them that she panicked and left. By the time she had gotten home, the police had already called and told her to come to the station with her information.
She is extremely remorseful and took full responsibility at the police station. She has been given 2 citations: a) failure to leave information and b) failure to locate driver and will have to appear in court for the judge to decide her punishment. We were told these were not misdemeanors or felony charges, and that they are considered traffic tickets.
She was absolutely wrong for leaving, and I am furious. The costs to repair the scratches are minimal compared to how much fines and lawyer fees will now cost. DD is a responsible girl, so this is very uncharacteristic of her, and Im not sure what came over her. She tends to panic in high stress situations, but this was just a ding on a car.
Im wondering if anyone knows what exactly happens how? In terms of what possible punishments may be, points, fines, lawyer fees, how this will effect her record ( she has an otherwise squeaky clean record). How much a lawyer may be able to help? Another concern is that DD is in grad school for a health profession, and how that will be effected
I tried posting on another parenting forum for advice, but posters began bashing DD, and I was not able to get much help.
I am hoping for any advice as we have never dealt with anything like this before.