Ive recently noticed that some friends Ive had for a gazillion years havent REALLY been good friends to me.Constantly TAKING..never listening....and why is it that I just noticed this after so many years?HMMMM..I dunno!!LOL!
Am I the only one that constantly does favors for people....yet when we ever need a favor..THOSE friends are NEVER THERE?
Or even when we need someone to talk to....they just disappear?
Im even talkin about some seriously good reasons.My best friend of 10 years wouldnt watch my daughter for 2 hours...WHILE I watched my Father in law DIE.....Ummmm..I swear.She was home with her 5 yr old and I had to send my SIL to pick my daughter up.WTF?
Ive since distanced myself from her......I never say no to my friends..Im a giver.BUT I guess I have opened my eyes more thru this.
In all honesty..The PFers Ive met over the last year have become more valuable friends to me than friends Ive known alot longer..I dont know what I would do without them!!..LOL....Anyone found themselves in this situation?Its like a huge lifetime reality check...LMAO.....
I never say no to friends..Dont know why..I just cant..whether it be to watch their kids....run an errand.....and they know it.So,I guess Ive really RE-EVALUATED my old friendships lately after that one situation ocurred.ANyone ever had this happen to them?I feel like an idiot sometimes when I realize some friends NEVER were friends..and I never realized it till now....
Am I the only one that constantly does favors for people....yet when we ever need a favor..THOSE friends are NEVER THERE?
Or even when we need someone to talk to....they just disappear?
Im even talkin about some seriously good reasons.My best friend of 10 years wouldnt watch my daughter for 2 hours...WHILE I watched my Father in law DIE.....Ummmm..I swear.She was home with her 5 yr old and I had to send my SIL to pick my daughter up.WTF?
Ive since distanced myself from her......I never say no to my friends..Im a giver.BUT I guess I have opened my eyes more thru this.
In all honesty..The PFers Ive met over the last year have become more valuable friends to me than friends Ive known alot longer..I dont know what I would do without them!!..LOL....Anyone found themselves in this situation?Its like a huge lifetime reality check...LMAO.....
I never say no to friends..Dont know why..I just cant..whether it be to watch their kids....run an errand.....and they know it.So,I guess Ive really RE-EVALUATED my old friendships lately after that one situation ocurred.ANyone ever had this happen to them?I feel like an idiot sometimes when I realize some friends NEVER were friends..and I never realized it till now....