Just FYI....he is telling people they got married because she lost her job and needed the health insurance. I sure this is possible if she has some chronic condition but I am not falling for it. My friend things I will be starting trouble if I go to the house and leave a gift. I don't plan on starting trouble with her, I will just say I work with him and wanted to leave a gift to congratulate you on your wedding blah blah. Plus I kind of want to see what she looks like....morbid curiosity. Do you think I should go to the house and bring the gift to leave with her or just leave it on his desk at work?