Mine was actually this summer in Paris. I do travel a lot and because I used to live in Italy I try to go back there as often as I can and honestly those trips restore me a lot, I just feel so relaxed and at peace over there, and it's home too. But this year's trip was a different kind of restoration-
I've been single for 3 years (I've dated but nothing you could call a relationship since 2007 when I was still with my Italian boyfriend) and I was sick and tired of it, I was sick and tired of everything, school, work, being single, all that, it was just getting so monotonous and dull I couldn't take it anymore (when I told people I'd been single "forever" I think people assumed I meant like 5-6 months so they just didn't get it why I had to get away and was so broken down. But no, it's been 3 years, I don't use "forever" lightly) I'm planning to move to Paris in about 2 years so I decided that for my vacation this year I would go there instead of Dublin which I had originally been planning. I also decided to up the ante and go for a month rather than 2 weeks, I really needed to get away, all the failed relationships had just taken too big a toll over 3 years, I was at the point where I honestly couldn't take it anymore, I couldn't take one more failed attempt, everyone has a limit. I just wanted to be on my own for a good period of time like that in the place that I plan to make my future in and just be with myself and my biggest passion in life- travel, and occupy myself with learning my future city. Well I solved my problem, my 2nd day I met a guy who asked me out and we dated the whole time I was there and it was exactly what I needed, just someone to restore my faith in myself and make me feel alive again. Unfortunately we're not together now, but we still talk. And now being back home, I'm much, much, much better, definitely restored and not feeling so desperate about dating, and ready to deal with more rejections if they come along
I was brought back to life, that's how I feel about it like I was just so dead before I left ugh. The time away was also great to just be with myself during the day and wander around because I loves me some alone time! I think all my trips have affected me, but Paris was the only one that I intentionally went on with the intent being to fix my life