Well Ladies I really need your help and advice on this one.
I sold an item few weeks ago. The buyer never paid so after the 4 days period I opened an unpaid item case. 3 more days passed and suddenly the buyer appears with the usual excuses. She didn't bid on the item but apparently someone from her family did so they didn't want to pay for it and if I could cancel the transaction. I'm sure you are all familiar with this...
Of course I wasn't willing to do such thing. I didn't reply and waited for one more day to pass so I could close the case with a strike for her. But...The next day she paid for the item, because as she wrote me she got an email from ebay that if she didn't pay she could have problems with her account. She still asked me though if I could cancel the transaction.
I was lucky enough and my paypal account didn't automaticaly accepted her payment. I was supposed to accept it manualy, which of course I didn't do. Instead I emailed her and asked her once again what I was supposed to do. She told me that she wanted to cancel the transaction. I was really pissed and confused and didn't reply anything nor I accepted the payment.
A week went by. I was too busy and didn't check my ebay account. Yesterday when I logged in my account I realised that she left me positive feedback. I mean can she do that? I haven't close the unpaid item case. And furthermore what is her deal? She doesn't realise that since she left me positive feedback I could just take her money and send her the item?
I have to say that I'm not willing to cancel the transaction. I'm sick and tired of those people who just bid for the fun. I had 3 unpaid cases in the last 3 months. It's insane. If she had contacted me right after the end of the auction I would have canceled it but she left me waiting for almost a week and then decided to tell me that she wouldn't pay.
So my question is what should I do? Should I deny her payment and close the case so that she gets the strike? But can I even do that since she initiated payment and I denied it? Or should I just accept her money and send her the item? I realise this is risky but I don't want people to get away with such reckless behaviour so easily. If that makes me a bad person, so be it.
Sorry for the long post but I am really frustrated. Thank you for any suggestion...
I sold an item few weeks ago. The buyer never paid so after the 4 days period I opened an unpaid item case. 3 more days passed and suddenly the buyer appears with the usual excuses. She didn't bid on the item but apparently someone from her family did so they didn't want to pay for it and if I could cancel the transaction. I'm sure you are all familiar with this...
Of course I wasn't willing to do such thing. I didn't reply and waited for one more day to pass so I could close the case with a strike for her. But...The next day she paid for the item, because as she wrote me she got an email from ebay that if she didn't pay she could have problems with her account. She still asked me though if I could cancel the transaction.
I was lucky enough and my paypal account didn't automaticaly accepted her payment. I was supposed to accept it manualy, which of course I didn't do. Instead I emailed her and asked her once again what I was supposed to do. She told me that she wanted to cancel the transaction. I was really pissed and confused and didn't reply anything nor I accepted the payment.
A week went by. I was too busy and didn't check my ebay account. Yesterday when I logged in my account I realised that she left me positive feedback. I mean can she do that? I haven't close the unpaid item case. And furthermore what is her deal? She doesn't realise that since she left me positive feedback I could just take her money and send her the item?
I have to say that I'm not willing to cancel the transaction. I'm sick and tired of those people who just bid for the fun. I had 3 unpaid cases in the last 3 months. It's insane. If she had contacted me right after the end of the auction I would have canceled it but she left me waiting for almost a week and then decided to tell me that she wouldn't pay.
So my question is what should I do? Should I deny her payment and close the case so that she gets the strike? But can I even do that since she initiated payment and I denied it? Or should I just accept her money and send her the item? I realise this is risky but I don't want people to get away with such reckless behaviour so easily. If that makes me a bad person, so be it.
Sorry for the long post but I am really frustrated. Thank you for any suggestion...