As some of you remember that my bf was so kindy offer some help on my birkin purchase. He was happy to lend me some money to purchase my birkin without any interest and as long as I pay it off in a reasonable timeframe.
Sadly, I found out he cheated on me. and it was something happened 1-2 years ago and they was hanging out for around more than 1 year. Maybe up today, they still in connection.. who knows?
I already noticed he has been acted very abnormal on the last 1-2 years, always fly to overseas, not much phone call after he left the country, consistantly seen his jewellery on that "WOMAN"'s hand or finger. He keep deny that nothing happened and they are just good friend.
Up to a point that I cant convince myself to trust him anymore and I feel the whole relationship gets so ugly.
Ok, sorry about the long story, the question is... I dont want to own him anymore and I just want to quit and pay him all back in once. Should I get a loan? because I work in the bank, I could get a loan in a very special rate and based on my income and outgoing, I could pay it off within 2 years ( if I dont make any purchase) or even eariler (if i get any pay raise).
or Should I sell the birkin? but... that is something I really dont want to do so since they could last me for my lifetime.
pls help ...
Sadly, I found out he cheated on me. and it was something happened 1-2 years ago and they was hanging out for around more than 1 year. Maybe up today, they still in connection.. who knows?
I already noticed he has been acted very abnormal on the last 1-2 years, always fly to overseas, not much phone call after he left the country, consistantly seen his jewellery on that "WOMAN"'s hand or finger. He keep deny that nothing happened and they are just good friend.
Up to a point that I cant convince myself to trust him anymore and I feel the whole relationship gets so ugly.
Ok, sorry about the long story, the question is... I dont want to own him anymore and I just want to quit and pay him all back in once. Should I get a loan? because I work in the bank, I could get a loan in a very special rate and based on my income and outgoing, I could pay it off within 2 years ( if I dont make any purchase) or even eariler (if i get any pay raise).
or Should I sell the birkin? but... that is something I really dont want to do so since they could last me for my lifetime.
pls help ...