Bluecat, I'm with you 100%. We don't go on holiday aside from the occasional weekend 'staycation', haven't had a night out together for 4 years as we've noone to babysit (but dd is 12 now so won't be long before we can again!). I don't like clothes shopping much, although I'm partial to rummaging in second hand shops for vintage gems which aren't usually very expensive.
My bags are my 'treat', the only thing I spend money on. Me and dh recently quit smoking, I only smoked about ten a week with my Friday night vino and he was on about ten a day, but we've worked out we're saving about £120 a month. That's almost £1500 a year! Which is one reason why Mr Bride has bought me a new bag for my birthday. It's money which would've literally gone up in smoke otherwise!
I'm satisfied with my family for now but there may well be a wishlist come sale time. Particularly if the Daria satchel in black and Mitzy coin purse in rn are reduced......