Men’s shoe size confusion

Hey all! I was hoping for advice/suggestions on a shoe size. I current have 2 pairs of shoes from Hermes, in different sizes, and am looking into a third pair. My first pair are ankle boots and they are a size 42.5
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My second pair are these loafers and they are in size 42. Both shoes fit me well.
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My confusion is what size to get a new pair in. I went to the boutique to try them on but they only had one style in. I tried these other loafers on, and found that the 41.5 were the best fit - the 42 were too big even though 42 in my other loafers were a great fit.


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So that’s three different sizes. The complication is that I decided I’d rather pass on a second pair of loafers and get this pair instead, for a different look, but they were out of stock. I’m not sure which size to ask my SA to order now. Trying to avoid ordering the wrong size and having to return them as much as possible. These are the pair I’d like:
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I’d love any advice! My SA is holding on ordering any right now, I told her I’m going to buy them next month around my birthday.

Any thoughts? Thanks in advance!

Question about Neverfull (Cerise interior)

Just got the Neverfull MM with cerise red interior. When I saw it at the store I instantly fell in love. I wanted the beige interior at first but it didn't really make me feel anything special compared to how I felt when the SA showed me the red interior.

My question (and I know it's a bit silly): Is it ok if I wear my usual purplish pinkish shades of lipstick even though the interior of the bag is red?
Haha I know it's a weird question but I'm feeling worried like do I only have to wear red lipstick if I'm wearing the bag?

Honest thoughts please.

Bright but wearable colors? Red B30 vs Blue K28

Which would you pick for a first quota bag between these two: Birkin 30 GHW togo in vermillion vs Kelly 28 retourne PHW tadelakt in bleu electrique. I know they’re both very different bags but I can’t make up my mind.

I don’t shy away from bright colors because I wear a lot of neutrals but I’d like some versatility in such an expensive purchase. I love and buy red H bags but get more wear out of my neutral bags like a tan Loewe puzzle and etain H Evelyn. I have 3 red bags already though will probably sell one to compensate if I purchased the red B.

Will add photos in second comment.. can’t get it to work now.

2025 REVEAL!! I've waited too long...

Hi everyone! Normally I do reveals every 6 mths or so but I really slacked off this past year and so this one is coming in over a year since my last one. Ugh...2024 was a year, what can I say? So, this is going to be a bit of a slog. Sorry for the backlog in advance...

Now that I've gotten pics taken of the past year's haul I can see it was a really good year of different and contrasting H goodies. My most recent goodie is a special one...and a first! But more on that in a minute...

Here's the damage from 2024-Jan of 2025:

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Bvlgari Serpenti Viper Two Coil Ring Sizing

Hello,

This will be my first piece from Bvlgari! I am eyeing the Serpenti Two Coil Version. I currently wear a size 5 or 50 on my ring finger. The online SA suggested I should get the M size. But I am worry about it being stretched out? I read a couple of post and saw one it’s stretched out, it can’t return to its original size? Spending almost 6k for a ring that’s not meant to last forever is not really my thing… I do plan on wearing it daily too. So I am btwn this and the double JUC ring.

Thanks in advance!
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Favorite and Least Favorite Dooney and Bourke Handbag

I'm being nosy! I'll go first.

Favorite Alto Fina in Oyster. I love the color and the simplicity of the bag. It was love at first site.

Least Favorite Alto Viola in T-Moro. The wonky handle has bugged me for years. I'm not sure if it has been carried. I think I paid $399.00. Not my best Dooney buy, but it seem iconic and I don't want to part with it. I purchased when it was being discontinued and made the purchase in the only color I could get my hands on from the L.V. store.

Should I match metal color when it comes to my diamond pieces?

Hello all,

I'm in a bit of a predicament when it comes to choosing a metal color for some new diamond pieces. I love a mixed metal look and regularly mix metals. Oddly enough, I've always preferred diamonds to be set in white gold and any other metal color looks "odd" to me. I love classic pieces that withstand the test of time. With this said, I'm worried about choosing the right metal color and limiting my options when worn.

I have a loose stone that I plan making into a solitaire necklace or pendant but unsure which metal I should set it into. I love the look of a floating diamond setting but that would limit me from wearing the diamond with a gold color chain. I absolutely love the look of a yellow gold solitaire necklace!

My question is, what color metal should I choose to set my diamond solitaire pendant? Would it look odd if I set it into a white gold pendant instead so I can switch it out for either a yellow or white gold chain to match my overall look? The only reason I would set it into a pendant instead of "floating" is to have the option to switch out the chain.

I have:
1. wedding ring set (white gold)
2. tennis bracelet (white gold)
3. tennis necklace (white gold)
4. diamond studs (white gold)

Cartier Love ring vs Trinity ring - sizing/fit

Hi all. Hope I can get some clarity and help, apologies if this was explained elsewhere- I could not find relevant thread. What is the size difference between Regular Trinity ring and regular Love (or small Love) ring? I’ve seen Cartier’s sizing but wanted real life experience.

I’m thinking about getting a plain Love band to wear on my pinky. I tried regular Trinity on that finger and size 46 was a good fit. I’m unable to visit Cartier’s at the moment.

Please could you tell me what would be the best fit for my pinky in Love if size 46 Trinity fits well?

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Help me choose

Which bag to keep

  • Dior Nomad

    Votes: 5 35.7%
  • Keepall xs

    Votes: 9 64.3%

So I have a strict one in and one out policy to my handbag and is looking to downsize one of those two bag, but having a hard time choosing.

They are very similar in size and style (at least for me). So when I reach out for one I can reach out for the other.

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Judith Leiber Crystal Minaudiere

Hello everyone, does anyone know the release year or collection of this Judith Leiber minaudiere? Are certain colorways or styles considered more collectible or rare? This one has both red and black crystals. Thank you!

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Spring or summer 2025 chunky black eyeglasses

Hey yall, brand new to this forum so apologies in advance if my etiquette isn’t up to par. I just need some help locating these glasses. Not sure if spring or summer 2025, pics ripped from @lolibahiaa on ig so I’m guessing based off the date posted. I’ve been internet sleuthing for hours and found many, extremely similar pairs but to no avail. Are these simply not part of the rtw collection? I just need that perfect pointed oval silhouette in my life!!!
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Bigger-ish bag corners drooping over metal feet or curled/warped base

Hi all!

See how the corners droop down and the bag’s pretty much sitting on the leather instead of the feet?

Or, the base panel has “curled” and the corners do the above.

How does one prevent this from happening on softer leathers on larger bags? Is there a particular base shaper that works best?

Or is this just the charm of a softer puddled bag?

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Italist Infinity – Worth It for Bags?

Hey everyone,

I don’t post much, but I’ve been following this forum for years and trust the opinions here more than anywhere else when it comes to getting the best deals.

So I wanted to ask—has anyone looked into Italist Infinity? I was browsing their site (I’ve bought from them once or twice before, mostly for Euro pricing on bags), and I saw this new subscription thing for $12.5/month that gives you 15% off everything, no brand exclusions.

At first, I was like, ugh, another membership…, but then I did the math on a few bags I’ve been eyeing (Bottega, Celine, and a Loewe Puzzle), and it actually makes a difference. I’m kinda tempted, but I don’t want to be the guinea pig if it’s clunky at checkout or has weird restrictions. Has anyone signed up? Does it actually work on new season pieces, or just on older stuff?

Would love to hear thoughts before I commit—$150 isn’t crazy, but also not nothing. 🤷‍♀️ Thanks
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Can't decide which color Birkin 30 (my first) to go with

Which color Birkin Would you go with?

  • Troupe with Gold Hardware

    Votes: 22 50.0%
  • Beige Marfa with Gold Hardware

    Votes: 4 9.1%
  • Gris Perle with Gold Hardware

    Votes: 18 40.9%

This will be my first birkin (pre-loved) I am looking a three different ones right now. Originally I wanted Gold but I was lucky enough to score a Picotin in Gold with Paladium hardware in Paris. I looking at Etoupe, Beige Marfa or Gris Perle, all three in Togo leather and gold hardware. I mostly wear denim, blazers and tee shirts. My color palettes are black, navy, grey, creams, and white. Which color do you think is most versatile? TIA
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Help me decide: Mini Rivale Bracelet or Mini Pop H Pendant

I'm deciding between the Mini Rivale Bracelet in Extreme Pink and the Mini Pop H Pendant in Rose Mexico, and I'm torn! I'd really appreciate your help in making the final choice!
Mini Rivale Bracelet: https://www.hermes.com/ca/en/product/rivale-mini-bracelet-H500186FCI6T2/
Mini Pop H Pendant https://www.hermes.com/ca/en/product/mini-pop-h-pendant-H147992FvB3/

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Cartier Tank Must - Small vs Large

Which size looks better in the Tank Must - Small or Large?

  • Small

    Votes: 30 93.8%
  • Large

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Neither

    Votes: 2 6.3%

I’m having a dilemma - I’m purchasing a Tank Must and cannot decide on the size. Originally, I was looking at the Large and then compared it to the Small in the boutique and am now confused. I’ve read that the Tank is supposed to be on the smaller side, but I don’t want it to be too small. I feel like my wrist (16”) is so that both could technically work, but I’d love others thoughts on the size. For reference in the photo, Small is on the left and Large is on the right.

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