Originally Posted by JAN!
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If anything, I feel kinda bad for them. I'm sure they don't WANT to feel this way, but they do and can't help it. We don't always get to choose who we are attracted to. And who knows, there prob may be something deeper than what's on the surface. Maybe it's some sort of chemical condition they both have lol.
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I take issue with this. We can be attracted to people we see every day, but that doesn't mean we ACT on it. We may not choose who we're attracted to, but we do choose who to sleep with. This was something they CHOSE to do; it wasn't beyond their control. This idea that people have no control over who they end up falling in love with is a myth, IMO. When we don't act on an attraction (like with 99% of the people we find ourselves attracted to - like after marriage), it never has the opportunity to develop into love.