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dari · Sep 5th, 2009, 03:24 AM

i'm very sorry for your loss... :(

candypants1100 · Sep 5th, 2009, 06:49 AM

i'm so sorry for your loss and for all you had to go through. thank goodness you are okay. there seem to be some good positive stories of successful conceiving after this, so there is hope! lots of positive vibes and hugs your way!

twochubbycheeks · Sep 6th, 2009, 11:45 AM

Hi There,
I'm so sorry for your loss, dear. Just try to stay positive and I'm sure another angel will come your way in due time.

luvamoramore · Sep 6th, 2009, 07:45 PM

Thanks u so much everybody for your thoughts and prayers. I am so blessed to have so many friends at tpF. Yesterday was not a good day ( I laid in bed all day) but today was way better. I am taking everything in strides.

smvida · Sep 7th, 2009, 11:45 PM

luvamoramore-
i am so sad for your loss. my sister had an ectopic pregnancy 2 weeks ago. i can only imagine what you must be feeling physically as well as emotionally...remember to take care of yourself and to check this thread for positive comments periodically.

my_2_cutiepies · Sep 7th, 2009, 11:58 PM

So sorry for your loss! I've had 3 miscarriages, but I have 2 perfect children now. It's very hard to lose a baby. Sending thoughts and prayers your way!!!

kurnu · Sep 14th, 2009, 01:49 PM

So sorry for your loss . I know how devastating it is to loose a baby. I'm praying for you and your family.

It's possible to get pregnant with one tube. Please keep us updated. I'm sure you'll have good news soon.

ntk99 · Sep 14th, 2009, 04:49 PM

I am so very sorry. I just went through the same thing. We were seven weeks when we discovered the EP. My tube didn't burst but On the day I was supposed to see the heartbeat, I was getting an injection of methotrexate to "dissolve" the pregnancy. This has been a horrific experience and now they want me to do an HSG test and I am scared witless.

I know nothing I say can make you feel better. People keep telling me that "at least I can get pregnant." No one understands that this is a loss and I am still grieving. Some of the best advice I can offer is this, take some time to feel your loss, let your body heal and lean on your friends and family. Know they love you and though they may not understand they only want to love you and comfort you. (though you may want to strangle them for the insensitive things they say)

Good luck love. I wish you all the best.

pink princess · Sep 18th, 2009, 06:10 AM

I am really so sorry for your loss, and to hear you have been through this, it is so not fair.

I had an ectopic pregnancy at Christmas and had my right tube removed. I knew I was pregnant and had been trying for a year and like the other poster went for a early scan to see the heart beat to be told there was nothing there and go through lots of tests, and also be told my dates might be wrong (which gave me hope the baby would be there next scan) to be told four days later I needed emergency surgery.

The best advice I can give you is to be good to yourself, cry if you want to, sleep and relax and take it so easy. I didnt and bottled it all up and was ill for near on six months, so please be good to yourself. I too had people saying the most mindless things such as "at least you can get pregnant" to, "oh well it was'nt meant to be". I am sure they meant well but it does'nt help and I felt I was made to feel silly for grieving the loss of my baby

As well as grieving your baby, you too have been through a life threatening experience which will have shook you up. I know I was terrified and reality hit home a month after the surgery and pregnancy loss

there is a really good forum called ectopic pregnancy trust which helped me through.

I have recently got pregnant again, with one tube, in the right place so it does happen, but unfortuntately have had a silent miscarriage so after my treatment, I too am back to trying again. third time lucky i hope.

Please feel free to pm me if you want to vent or talk its a tough thing to go through and it helps to have places like here or other people going through similar things to talk too

Sending lots of hugs and love your way ((((())))

too_cute · Sep 18th, 2009, 07:39 AM

so sorry for yor loss. *hugs*

luvamoramore · Sep 21st, 2009, 07:11 PM

Update: I had my post-op visit last Thursday and everything seems to be normal. The remaining left tube is functioning normally and the Dr said that there was no reason for me to have an ectopic pregnancy. The right tube removed didn't have any scarring or anything else. I am still in a little bit of pain b/c of the incision and it will hurt for at least 2 weeks. I am able to move slowly like a duck ( laughing) but i am still taking it easy. So now I am waiting for AF to come back ( the Dr said in 2 mths or less) to be sure that everything is back on track. As far as getting pregnant again, the Dr says if i want in 2-3 mos but my mind isn't ready to go to that place yet. Thx so much for your support and kind words, ladies.

luvamoramore · Sep 21st, 2009, 07:15 PM

Originally Posted by pink princess

I am really so sorry for your loss, and to hear you have been through this, it is so not fair.

I had an ectopic pregnancy at Christmas and had my right tube removed. I knew I was pregnant and had been trying for a year and like the other poster went for a early scan to see the heart beat to be told there was nothing there and go through lots of tests, and also be told my dates might be wrong (which gave me hope the baby would be there next scan) to be told four days later I needed emergency surgery.

The best advice I can give you is to be good to yourself, cry if you want to, sleep and relax and take it so easy. I didnt and bottled it all up and was ill for near on six months, so please be good to yourself. I too had people saying the most mindless things such as "at least you can get pregnant" to, "oh well it was'nt meant to be". I am sure they meant well but it does'nt help and I felt I was made to feel silly for grieving the loss of my baby

As well as grieving your baby, you too have been through a life threatening experience which will have shook you up. I know I was terrified and reality hit home a month after the surgery and pregnancy loss

there is a really good forum called ectopic pregnancy trust which helped me through.

I have recently got pregnant again, with one tube, in the right place so it does happen, but unfortuntately have had a silent miscarriage so after my treatment, I too am back to trying again. third time lucky i hope.

Please feel free to pm me if you want to vent or talk its a tough thing to go through and it helps to have places like here or other people going through similar things to talk too

Sending lots of hugs and love your way ((((())))

Pink princess, sending you baby dust. I am so sorry for what you went thru but this time everything will be ok. Third time lucky for sure. Pls feel free to pm if u need to vent or talk. Hang in there! Sending u lots of hugs and love your way too.

kurnu · Sep 21st, 2009, 08:00 PM

Originally Posted by luvamoramore

Update: I had my post-op visit last Thursday and everything seems to be normal. The remaining left tube is functioning normally and the Dr said that there was no reason for me to have an ectopic pregnancy. The right tube removed didn't have any scarring or anything else. I am still in a little bit of pain b/c of the incision and it will hurt for at least 2 weeks. I am able to move slowly like a duck ( laughing) but i am still taking it easy. So now I am waiting for AF to come back ( the Dr said in 2 mths or less) to be sure that everything is back on track. As far as getting pregnant again, the Dr says if i want in 2-3 mos but my mind isn't ready to go to that place yet. Thx so much for your support and kind words, ladies.

So happy to read everything is better (physically) . I'm sending you + vibes so you keep getting stronger. xoxo

pink princess · Sep 23rd, 2009, 01:20 PM

Originally Posted by luvamoramore

Pink princess, sending you baby dust. I am so sorry for what you went thru but this time everything will be ok. Third time lucky for sure. Pls feel free to pm if u need to vent or talk. Hang in there! Sending u lots of hugs and love your way too.

Thank you and also, I am glad to hear your appointment went well xxx

pellkell · Nov 21st, 2009, 12:13 AM

So sorry for you loss.
My friend had an etopic 6 years ago and she now has a 4 year old boy and a 1 year old girl with problems.
Take care and God Bless.

Sep 5th, 2009, 03:24 AM	#16
dari Member Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 312	i'm very sorry for your loss... :(
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Sep 5th, 2009, 06:49 AM	#17
candypants1100 Member Joined: May 2008 Location: candyland Posts: 4,584	i'm so sorry for your loss and for all you had to go through. thank goodness you are okay. there seem to be some good positive stories of successful conceiving after this, so there is hope! lots of positive vibes and hugs your way!
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Sep 6th, 2009, 07:45 PM	#19
luvamoramore OP Member Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,621	Thanks u so much everybody for your thoughts and prayers. I am so blessed to have so many friends at tpF. Yesterday was not a good day ( I laid in bed all day) but today was way better. I am taking everything in strides.
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Sep 14th, 2009, 01:49 PM	#22
kurnu yoga junkie Joined: May 2006 Location: PR Posts: 207	So sorry for your loss . I know how devastating it is to loose a baby. I'm praying for you and your family. It's possible to get pregnant with one tube. Please keep us updated. I'm sure you'll have good news soon.
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Sep 18th, 2009, 06:10 AM	#24
pink princess Member Joined: Dec 2006 Location: Liverpool England Posts: 139	I am really so sorry for your loss, and to hear you have been through this, it is so not fair. I had an ectopic pregnancy at Christmas and had my right tube removed. I knew I was pregnant and had been trying for a year and like the other poster went for a early scan to see the heart beat to be told there was nothing there and go through lots of tests, and also be told my dates might be wrong (which gave me hope the baby would be there next scan) to be told four days later I needed emergency surgery. The best advice I can give you is to be good to yourself, cry if you want to, sleep and relax and take it so easy. I didnt and bottled it all up and was ill for near on six months, so please be good to yourself. I too had people saying the most mindless things such as "at least you can get pregnant" to, "oh well it was'nt meant to be". I am sure they meant well but it does'nt help and I felt I was made to feel silly for grieving the loss of my baby As well as grieving your baby, you too have been through a life threatening experience which will have shook you up. I know I was terrified and reality hit home a month after the surgery and pregnancy loss there is a really good forum called ectopic pregnancy trust which helped me through. I have recently got pregnant again, with one tube, in the right place so it does happen, but unfortuntately have had a silent miscarriage so after my treatment, I too am back to trying again. third time lucky i hope. Please feel free to pm me if you want to vent or talk its a tough thing to go through and it helps to have places like here or other people going through similar things to talk too Sending lots of hugs and love your way ((((())))
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Sep 6th, 2009, 11:45 AM	#18
twochubbycheeks I miss you Mom. Joined: Aug 2007 Location: Farm Town Posts: 6,158	Hi There, I'm so sorry for your loss, dear. Just try to stay positive and I'm sure another angel will come your way in due time.

Sep 7th, 2009, 11:45 PM	#20
smvida on.my.hustle Joined: Aug 2008 Location: The Wet Coast Posts: 729	luvamoramore- i am so sad for your loss. my sister had an ectopic pregnancy 2 weeks ago. i can only imagine what you must be feeling physically as well as emotionally...remember to take care of yourself and to check this thread for positive comments periodically.

Sep 7th, 2009, 11:58 PM	#21
my_2_cutiepies Member Joined: Apr 2009 Location: The OC Posts: 39	So sorry for your loss! I've had 3 miscarriages, but I have 2 perfect children now. It's very hard to lose a baby. Sending thoughts and prayers your way!!!

Sep 14th, 2009, 04:49 PM	#23
ntk99 Member Joined: Sep 2009 Location: North Carolina Posts: 8	I am so very sorry. I just went through the same thing. We were seven weeks when we discovered the EP. My tube didn't burst but On the day I was supposed to see the heartbeat, I was getting an injection of methotrexate to "dissolve" the pregnancy. This has been a horrific experience and now they want me to do an HSG test and I am scared witless. I know nothing I say can make you feel better. People keep telling me that "at least I can get pregnant." No one understands that this is a loss and I am still grieving. Some of the best advice I can offer is this, take some time to feel your loss, let your body heal and lean on your friends and family. Know they love you and though they may not understand they only want to love you and comfort you. (though you may want to strangle them for the insensitive things they say) Good luck love. I wish you all the best.

Sep 18th, 2009, 07:39 AM	#25
too_cute loves pretty things Joined: Aug 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 433	so sorry for yor loss. hugs

Sep 21st, 2009, 07:11 PM	#26
luvamoramore OP Member Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,621	Update: I had my post-op visit last Thursday and everything seems to be normal. The remaining left tube is functioning normally and the Dr said that there was no reason for me to have an ectopic pregnancy. The right tube removed didn't have any scarring or anything else. I am still in a little bit of pain b/c of the incision and it will hurt for at least 2 weeks. I am able to move slowly like a duck ( laughing) but i am still taking it easy. So now I am waiting for AF to come back ( the Dr said in 2 mths or less) to be sure that everything is back on track. As far as getting pregnant again, the Dr says if i want in 2-3 mos but my mind isn't ready to go to that place yet. Thx so much for your support and kind words, ladies.
luvamoramore OP Member Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,621

Nov 21st, 2009, 12:13 AM	#30
pellkell Member Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 93	So sorry for you loss. My friend had an etopic 6 years ago and she now has a 4 year old boy and a 1 year old girl with problems. Take care and God Bless.
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