I'm tired of _______

tabbyco · Feb 18th, 2008, 04:42 PM

^^ oh fashion16 this breaks my heart!

sarahsar · Feb 18th, 2008, 05:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fashion16

I am tired of pretending to be okay when I just had a miscarriage.
I am tired of everyone thinking I took an extended weekend last week to do something w/ DH for Valentine's day when I had a D&C on Valentine's day!
I am tired of pretending to be this strong business woman when inside all I want to do is crawl in bed in sweats and cry.
I am tired of all of these girls at work being pregnant, talking about being pregnant, complaining about being pregnant and eating McDonalds & drinking diet coke while pregnant.
I am tired of feeling that I should be over the miscarriage when I am not sure I will ever be over it.
I am tired of having breakdowns out of the blue & DH looks at me wondering what HE did wrong.

I'm so sorry, fashion.

{hug} It's so hard, especially when it happens over a holiday (I miscarried over Christmas in 2006 and it was horrible). Take care of yourself and allow yourself time and space to grieve. I don't think I will ever be truly over my pregnancy losses, but it does get better with time.

chodessa · Feb 18th, 2008, 05:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fashion16

I am tired of pretending to be okay when I just had a miscarriage.
I am tired of everyone thinking I took an extended weekend last week to do something w/ DH for Valentine's day when I had a D&C on Valentine's day!
I am tired of pretending to be this strong business woman when inside all I want to do is crawl in bed in sweats and cry.
I am tired of all of these girls at work being pregnant, talking about being pregnant, complaining about being pregnant and eating McDonalds & drinking diet coke while pregnant.
I am tired of feeling that I should be over the miscarriage when I am not sure I will ever be over it.
I am tired of having breakdowns out of the blue & DH looks at me wondering what HE did wrong.

I am so so sorry to hear this..

I hear your pain, and I feel it.
Big, big hugs to you.

We are always here if you need to let it out.

Stay strong.

chodessa · Feb 18th, 2008, 05:56 PM

I'm tired of there not being enough good news for some of us!

beejerry · Feb 18th, 2008, 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fashion16

I am tired of pretending to be okay when I just had a miscarriage.
I am tired of everyone thinking I took an extended weekend last week to do something w/ DH for Valentine's day when I had a D&C on Valentine's day!
I am tired of pretending to be this strong business woman when inside all I want to do is crawl in bed in sweats and cry.
I am tired of all of these girls at work being pregnant, talking about being pregnant, complaining about being pregnant and eating McDonalds & drinking diet coke while pregnant.
I am tired of feeling that I should be over the miscarriage when I am not sure I will ever be over it.
I am tired of having breakdowns out of the blue & DH looks at me wondering what HE did wrong.

{{{ Fashion16 }}}

It would take some time to recover from loss, it took me 2 years! Hang tight dear!

We're here for YOU!

pinkdot · Feb 20th, 2008, 12:33 PM

I cried yesterday, i'm trying to hold it together, but its hard.

chodessa · Feb 20th, 2008, 03:46 PM

I've found myself pulling away from everyone around me except my DH....even my mom notices that I am being very guarded...I never want to do anything these days...

fashion16 · Feb 21st, 2008, 03:00 PM

I am tired of getting so freakin' angry when I get baby shower invitations. I get tired of constantly running into these girls in the office that are pregnant and they want everyone to know they are pregnant.

bbbochap · Feb 21st, 2008, 03:19 PM

HI GALS, im new to this section & this thread is so appropriate for me to vent...

fashion16 - i am so sorry for your loss & i can feel your pain totally.... i can only assure you that time will heal this pain, so try to grieve all you want in your own personal space as this is the only way you can get over this ordeal. for me, it helped alot after being able to communicate with my DH abt what happened (my DH refused to talk abt this & we only spoke abt this 3 weeks after my d/c)...lots of HUGS to you & stay strong!

for my personal vents -
i am tired of hearing about others getting pregnant (esp. soon after they wedded/or when they are younger than me)
i am tired of looking so fat (because i had to eat healthily & steer away from all diet plans)
i am tired of my skin looking horrid (because i cant use my retin-a cream)
i am tired of pple asking me if im pregnant because i gained alot of weight since
im tried of my parents asking me when i am going to bear a child (they do not know what is the problem with me & i do not want them to worry)
im tired of obsessing with this & my DH thinks im a loony (because he is not as keen as me to have a child)

im just very tired & i really feel like giving up

tks for listening.

jenniletv · Feb 22nd, 2008, 03:27 PM

I am just TIRED period.

jenniletv · Sep 2nd, 2008, 05:53 PM

I must revive this thread.....I am still TIRED....period!! I am tired of trying and trying and getting nowhere. I am tired of taking my temps everyday. I am tired of trying to get the hang of charting..why can I not get it???

illinirdhd · Sep 2nd, 2008, 06:44 PM

I'm tired of waiting for these damn OPK tests to give me a smiley face!

wasabipea · Sep 3rd, 2008, 01:50 PM

I'm tired of DH's auntie asking WHEN we're having kids while petting my tummy as if its going make IT happen.
I'm tired of charting my BBT and getting odd results.
I'm tired of the disappointment each time AF visits.

Thanks for reviving this Jenniltv.

jenniletv · Sep 3rd, 2008, 02:29 PM

Your welcome - I know I needed it!

Alidoll · Sep 3rd, 2008, 03:25 PM

I'm tired of being a pin cushion - why don't the men have them too (so they know what we're going through!).

I'm tired of family and friends saying "aren't you having kids - you don't want to be a geriatric mother do you!"

I'm tired of waiting for the letter from the hospital giving a date for IVF treatment to start..

But mostly I'm tired of AF starting every month...

Feb 18th, 2008, 04:42 PM	#61
tabbyco Quirrel! Location: Right Coast	Re: I'm tired of _______ ^^ oh fashion16 this breaks my heart! {{Hugs}} __________________

Feb 18th, 2008, 05:56 PM	#64
chodessa Hot Smot and Humble	Re: I'm tired of _______ I'm tired of there not being enough good news for some of us!

Feb 20th, 2008, 12:33 PM	#66
pinkdot on cloud 9	Re: I'm tired of _______ I cried yesterday, i'm trying to hold it together, but its hard.

Feb 20th, 2008, 03:46 PM	#67
chodessa Hot Smot and Humble	Re: I'm tired of _______ I've found myself pulling away from everyone around me except my DH....even my mom notices that I am being very guarded...I never want to do anything these days...

Feb 21st, 2008, 03:00 PM	#68
fashion16 Member	Re: I'm tired of _______ I am tired of getting so freakin' angry when I get baby shower invitations. I get tired of constantly running into these girls in the office that are pregnant and they want everyone to know they are pregnant.

Feb 21st, 2008, 03:19 PM	#69
bbbochap I only want H	Re: I'm tired of _______ HI GALS, im new to this section & this thread is so appropriate for me to vent... fashion16 - i am so sorry for your loss & i can feel your pain totally.... i can only assure you that time will heal this pain, so try to grieve all you want in your own personal space as this is the only way you can get over this ordeal. for me, it helped alot after being able to communicate with my DH abt what happened (my DH refused to talk abt this & we only spoke abt this 3 weeks after my d/c)...lots of HUGS to you & stay strong! for my personal vents - i am tired of hearing about others getting pregnant (esp. soon after they wedded/or when they are younger than me) i am tired of looking so fat (because i had to eat healthily & steer away from all diet plans) i am tired of my skin looking horrid (because i cant use my retin-a cream) i am tired of pple asking me if im pregnant because i gained alot of weight since im tried of my parents asking me when i am going to bear a child (they do not know what is the problem with me & i do not want them to worry) im tired of obsessing with this & my DH thinks im a loony (because he is not as keen as me to have a child) im just very tired & i really feel like giving up tks for listening.

Feb 22nd, 2008, 03:27 PM	#70
jenniletv In Minkie Land!! Location: Middle of Hokie Nation!	Re: I'm tired of _______ I am just TIRED period. __________________ Wishlist: RM Devote in Black - Preorderd!! RM K&U in any color RM MAC in ...color undecided RM MAB Luxe - PM if you find one for a great deal!! Come see my RM Collection: here

Sep 2nd, 2008, 05:53 PM	#71
jenniletv In Minkie Land!! Location: Middle of Hokie Nation!	I must revive this thread.....I am still TIRED....period!! I am tired of trying and trying and getting nowhere. I am tired of taking my temps everyday. I am tired of trying to get the hang of charting..why can I not get it??? __________________ Wishlist: RM Devote in Black - Preorderd!! RM K&U in any color RM MAC in ...color undecided RM MAB Luxe - PM if you find one for a great deal!! Come see my RM Collection: here

Sep 2nd, 2008, 06:44 PM	#72
illinirdhd Sofa King Hooked Location: Las Vegas, NV	I'm tired of waiting for these damn OPK tests to give me a smiley face! __________________

Sep 3rd, 2008, 01:50 PM	#73
wasabipea Member	I'm tired of DH's auntie asking WHEN we're having kids while petting my tummy as if its going make IT happen. I'm tired of charting my BBT and getting odd results. I'm tired of the disappointment each time AF visits. Thanks for reviving this Jenniltv.

Sep 3rd, 2008, 02:29 PM	#74
jenniletv In Minkie Land!! Location: Middle of Hokie Nation!	Your welcome - I know I needed it! __________________ Wishlist: RM Devote in Black - Preorderd!! RM K&U in any color RM MAC in ...color undecided RM MAB Luxe - PM if you find one for a great deal!! Come see my RM Collection: here

Sep 3rd, 2008, 03:25 PM	#75
Alidoll Member Location: Bonnie Scotland	I'm tired of being a pin cushion - why don't the men have them too (so they know what we're going through!). I'm tired of family and friends saying "aren't you having kids - you don't want to be a geriatric mother do you!" I'm tired of waiting for the letter from the hospital giving a date for IVF treatment to start.. But mostly I'm tired of AF starting every month...