Bad News guys

lorenzo94580 · Jun 13th, 2008, 09:29 PM

I am so sorry.

minks · Jun 13th, 2008, 10:48 PM

So sorry Pinkdot! You are in my thoughts!

scarlett_2005 · Jun 14th, 2008, 02:01 AM

I'm sorry for your loss.

burberryprncess · Jun 14th, 2008, 02:29 AM

I'm so sorry. This happened to my sister-in-law twice. The first time, she waited for the natural miscarriage, which was too emotional for her. The second time, she opted for D&C to get it over with quicker and move on. The procedure was simple and painless for her. ((((HUGS))))

mssmelanie · Jun 14th, 2008, 12:12 PM

I am so sorry (((((HUGS)))))

mangowife · Jun 15th, 2008, 11:47 PM

Pinkdot, I'm so sorry to hear the news. BIG HUGS to you and your family.

duranie70 · Jun 16th, 2008, 02:45 AM

I feel so bad for you, I am truly sorry.

pinkdot · Jun 16th, 2008, 02:37 PM

Thanks everyone!!

I decided to go with the D&C. It was an easier process.
My OB/GYN really got mad at me though for choosing it. I spoke to her on the phone while sitting in the ER. She kept telling me to do it through a medication and i wanted to do D&C. (it was Sat. morning) so she's like..well i cant do it today because you have to schedule one. then she's like, if you want one then ask another doctor to do it, cus i'm not. hung up the phone.
That is sooo mean..its like i'm already going through so much, i dont need your attitude. Anywho..so the ER doctor recommended another OB/GYN who actually recommended the D&C. anywho, he was really nice and informative. Thank god he's covered under our insurance, cuz next time i'll be going to him.

I've been resting since saturday. But was wondering, the girls who had D&C done, how did you guys rest for after the D&C?

BearyT · Jun 16th, 2008, 05:19 PM

pinkdot: glad to hear from you and know that you're doing fine. I guess we have a similiar situation with the OB. I first went to a well-known OB in my area, thought that he might be good. Ended up he did not give us any good advice nor helping me out at all when I had the miscarriage. Most of the time he was asking me to go to ER. I really can't stand him and we find another OB under our insurance group. Thanks God! This OB is so much better and caring!

I rested for a week after my miscarriage, I bleeded for a week, sorry if its *TMI* have cramps the first 3 days and it was just spotting on and off for the rest of the week. After 1 week, my body just got back to normal. However, I am still waiting for my period to come.

Sarsi · Jun 16th, 2008, 05:53 PM

I'm very sorry Pinkdot...
Take care of yourself and you could try again..
HUGS...

MrsL · Jun 16th, 2008, 06:10 PM

im very sorry for your loss pinkdot..my thoughts are with you and im keeping you in my prayers that one day soon youll have a healthy baby!

5thelement · Jun 16th, 2008, 06:20 PM

I'm sorry for your loss. :( Pooh on your original OB.

beejerry · Jun 16th, 2008, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by pinkdot

Thanks everyone!!

I decided to go with the D&C. It was an easier process.
My OB/GYN really got mad at me though for choosing it. I spoke to her on the phone while sitting in the ER. She kept telling me to do it through a medication and i wanted to do D&C. (it was Sat. morning) so she's like..well i cant do it today because you have to schedule one. then she's like, if you want one then ask another doctor to do it, cus i'm not. hung up the phone.
That is sooo mean..its like i'm already going through so much, i dont need your attitude. Anywho..so the ER doctor recommended another OB/GYN who actually recommended the D&C. anywho, he was really nice and informative. Thank god he's covered under our insurance, cuz next time i'll be going to him.

I've been resting since saturday. But was wondering, the girls who had D&C done, how did you guys rest for after the D&C?

First of all, let DH do all the housework

Then take a nice break from work, shop a little, have some good food, read a book, watch a movie, vent all you can. Since I had a laparascope also, I had 4 weeks off. I was able to get up and walk around on day 5. But still let DH do the housework

Take care!

fashion16 · Jun 16th, 2008, 08:58 PM

I rested for 2 days after my D&C, then I was up to all my "normal" activities except exercising and BD. I waited for 2 weeks to do participate in those two activities.

I felt fine to exercise within 2 or 3 days but my doctor warned me that it could be dangerous and suggested that I wait at least 2 weeks.

sarahsar · Jun 17th, 2008, 06:49 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been there, and I know what a tough time this is. Take good care of yourself, and let yourself grieve.

Jun 14th, 2008, 02:01 AM	#18
scarlett_2005 Crazy 4 LV Location: USA	I'm sorry for your loss. __________________ I did it, I lost all my baby weight!

Jun 14th, 2008, 02:29 AM	#19
burberryprncess Sophie Location: Southern California	I'm so sorry. This happened to my sister-in-law twice. The first time, she waited for the natural miscarriage, which was too emotional for her. The second time, she opted for D&C to get it over with quicker and move on. The procedure was simple and painless for her. ((((HUGS)))) __________________ Hope your holidays are bright with surprise and delight.

Jun 15th, 2008, 11:47 PM	#21
mangowife Seriously tempted... Location: Too far from the beach!	Pinkdot, I'm so sorry to hear the news. BIG HUGS to you and your family. __________________

Jun 16th, 2008, 02:37 PM	#23
pinkdot on cloud 9	Thanks everyone!! I decided to go with the D&C. It was an easier process. My OB/GYN really got mad at me though for choosing it. I spoke to her on the phone while sitting in the ER. She kept telling me to do it through a medication and i wanted to do D&C. (it was Sat. morning) so she's like..well i cant do it today because you have to schedule one. then she's like, if you want one then ask another doctor to do it, cus i'm not. hung up the phone. That is sooo mean..its like i'm already going through so much, i dont need your attitude. Anywho..so the ER doctor recommended another OB/GYN who actually recommended the D&C. anywho, he was really nice and informative. Thank god he's covered under our insurance, cuz next time i'll be going to him. I've been resting since saturday. But was wondering, the girls who had D&C done, how did you guys rest for after the D&C? __________________

Jun 16th, 2008, 05:19 PM	#24
BearyT Member	pinkdot: glad to hear from you and know that you're doing fine. I guess we have a similiar situation with the OB. I first went to a well-known OB in my area, thought that he might be good. Ended up he did not give us any good advice nor helping me out at all when I had the miscarriage. Most of the time he was asking me to go to ER. I really can't stand him and we find another OB under our insurance group. Thanks God! This OB is so much better and caring! I rested for a week after my miscarriage, I bleeded for a week, sorry if its TMI have cramps the first 3 days and it was just spotting on and off for the rest of the week. After 1 week, my body just got back to normal. However, I am still waiting for my period to come. __________________

Jun 13th, 2008, 09:29 PM	#16
lorenzo94580 Member	I am so sorry.

Jun 13th, 2008, 10:48 PM	#17
minks Always Shopping Location: New Jersey	So sorry Pinkdot! You are in my thoughts!

Jun 14th, 2008, 12:12 PM	#20
mssmelanie Member Location: NJ	I am so sorry (((((HUGS)))))

Jun 16th, 2008, 02:45 AM	#22
duranie70 Handbag Addict Location: NYC	I feel so bad for you, I am truly sorry.

Jun 16th, 2008, 05:53 PM	#25
Sarsi Member Location: Bay Area CA.	I'm very sorry Pinkdot... Take care of yourself and you could try again.. HUGS... __________________ SARSI

Jun 16th, 2008, 06:10 PM	#26
MrsL Member	im very sorry for your loss pinkdot..my thoughts are with you and im keeping you in my prayers that one day soon youll have a healthy baby! __________________ Mrs L

Jun 16th, 2008, 06:20 PM	#27
5thelement Member	I'm sorry for your loss. :( Pooh on your original OB.

Jun 16th, 2008, 08:58 PM	#29
fashion16 Member	I rested for 2 days after my D&C, then I was up to all my "normal" activities except exercising and BD. I waited for 2 weeks to do participate in those two activities. I felt fine to exercise within 2 or 3 days but my doctor warned me that it could be dangerous and suggested that I wait at least 2 weeks.

Jun 17th, 2008, 06:49 PM	#30
sarahsar In LVoe Location: USA	I am so sorry for your loss. I have been there, and I know what a tough time this is. Take good care of yourself, and let yourself grieve. __________________