Bad news from me

BearyT · May 27th, 2008, 04:11 PM

Not sure if this is the right spot? Sorry if its not. I had a very bad cramp on Wednesday and I went to the ER on Saturday. I just had a miscarriage. Everything happened too fast and too sudden. Luckily, my DH is very supportive. I guess its not meant to be this time. Will try harder again later.

cascratchfever · May 27th, 2008, 04:31 PM

I'm so sorry :(

Alidoll · May 27th, 2008, 04:47 PM

Oh BearyT, I'm so sorry. Big cyber hugs to you.

jenniletv · May 27th, 2008, 04:49 PM

Ohh, I am so sorry.

we are here if you need anything.

tabbyco · May 27th, 2008, 05:03 PM

Lots of love and support to you and DH during this difficult time. I'm so sorry.

mpark46 · May 27th, 2008, 05:22 PM

I'm so sorry. Hugs to you and your DH.
I'm sure your time will come soon.

BearyT · May 27th, 2008, 05:51 PM

Thanks everyone.. we're both fine as the doc told us that I'm still in the very very early stage with no heartbeat yet. I guess that made both of us feel easier. Not sure if this is the right place to ask?

Wondering if anyone has a M/C before and want to know how long did they wait to get to TTC again?

cutter333 · May 27th, 2008, 06:06 PM

I am so sorry to hear that. ((((Hugs))))

Typically you should wait one cycle. So rest and have one normal period and then try again. Sometimes it takes 6+weeks for your period to return again.

candypants1100 · May 27th, 2008, 07:05 PM

im so sorry. warm regards from connecticut

bagdizzy · May 27th, 2008, 07:25 PM

im sorry

dont worry...dont try harder or too hard...just enjoy each other (you & spouse's company) and take it easy...it will definitely come

and you'll be more prepared.

keodi · May 27th, 2008, 07:37 PM

I'm so sorry

. When you're all better you and SO can can have fun trying again

.

babieejae1101 · May 27th, 2008, 07:50 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

duranie70 · May 27th, 2008, 08:01 PM

I'm so sorry, I can't imagine that pain.

fashion16 · May 27th, 2008, 08:38 PM

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I had a miscarriage in February. I have 45 day cycles but I waited one cycle before trying again. I had a D&C (on Valentine's day of all days) but it took about 6 weeks for AF to return. DH and I have been trying again for about 6 weeks. If you need to talk, feel free to PM me.

VT Pooh · May 27th, 2008, 09:38 PM

I am sorry. Please take care.

May 27th, 2008, 04:11 PM	#1
BearyT Member Joined: May 2008 Posts: 172	Not sure if this is the right spot? Sorry if its not. I had a very bad cramp on Wednesday and I went to the ER on Saturday. I just had a miscarriage. Everything happened too fast and too sudden. Luckily, my DH is very supportive. I guess its not meant to be this time. Will try harder again later. __________________

May 27th, 2008, 04:49 PM	#4
jenniletv Need bag rehab Joined: Aug 2006 Location: Middle of Hokie Nation! Posts: 2,478	Ohh, I am so sorry. we are here if you need anything. __________________ My Babies: LV Mono Deauville LV Mono Trouville LV Mono Ellipse Backpack LV MC Black Alma LV Black Epi Speedy 30 LV Manhattan PM LV Mono Pochette LV MC Black Porte-Tresor Wallet LV Mono 4 key holder RM Mattinee in Black/Blue flap RM Steady in Hazelnut

May 27th, 2008, 05:03 PM	#5
tabbyco Quirrel! Joined: Jun 2006 Location: Right Coast Posts: 2,174	Lots of love and support to you and DH during this difficult time. I'm so sorry. __________________

May 27th, 2008, 05:51 PM	#7
BearyT Member Joined: May 2008 Posts: 172	Thanks everyone.. we're both fine as the doc told us that I'm still in the very very early stage with no heartbeat yet. I guess that made both of us feel easier. Not sure if this is the right place to ask? Wondering if anyone has a M/C before and want to know how long did they wait to get to TTC again? __________________

May 27th, 2008, 06:06 PM	#8
cutter333 Member Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 59	I am so sorry to hear that. ((((Hugs)))) Typically you should wait one cycle. So rest and have one normal period and then try again. Sometimes it takes 6+weeks for your period to return again. __________________ Courtney It's a boy!

May 27th, 2008, 04:31 PM	#2
cascratchfever Member Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 720	I'm so sorry :(

May 27th, 2008, 04:47 PM	#3
Alidoll Member Joined: Apr 2007 Location: Bonnie Scotland Posts: 482	Oh BearyT, I'm so sorry. Big cyber hugs to you.

May 27th, 2008, 05:22 PM	#6
mpark46 Member Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,554	I'm so sorry. Hugs to you and your DH. I'm sure your time will come soon.

May 27th, 2008, 07:05 PM	#9
candypants1100 Member Joined: May 2008 Location: connecticut Posts: 1,078	im so sorry. warm regards from connecticut

May 27th, 2008, 07:25 PM	#10
bagdizzy I Like...I Want... Joined: Mar 2007 Location: LAX/MNL Posts: 1,565	im sorry dont worry...dont try harder or too hard...just enjoy each other (you & spouse's company) and take it easy...it will definitely come and you'll be more prepared.

May 27th, 2008, 07:37 PM	#11
keodi Sofa King Done.... Joined: Aug 2006 Location: ANON Posts: 5,835	I'm so sorry. When you're all better you and SO can can have fun trying again. __________________ NOTE TO SELF: SELF, YOU WILL NOT SPEND UNNECESSARILY!!!

May 27th, 2008, 07:50 PM	#12
babieejae1101 Don't shop, Adopt! Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 578	I'm so sorry for your loss. :( __________________

May 27th, 2008, 08:01 PM	#13
duranie70 Handbag Addict Joined: Aug 2006 Location: NYC Posts: 1,696	I'm so sorry, I can't imagine that pain. __________________ In debt because of tpf

May 27th, 2008, 08:38 PM	#14
fashion16 Member Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 767	I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I had a miscarriage in February. I have 45 day cycles but I waited one cycle before trying again. I had a D&C (on Valentine's day of all days) but it took about 6 weeks for AF to return. DH and I have been trying again for about 6 weeks. If you need to talk, feel free to PM me.

May 27th, 2008, 09:38 PM	#15
VT Pooh Member Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 445	I am sorry. Please take care.