DH knows better than to guess on my taste in bags However, I did just go through the same thing with electronics. I asked and got an iPod shuffle when we were dating for my birthday. Recently, I have been looking around for something that will play video during long plane rides, and my birthday is coming up. He asked if I would like the Nano, and I said no, because then my shuffle would be useless. He suggested ebaying it, and I said "I just can't sell a gift you gave me." He hugged me and said "it's only an object, you still have the gift giver."