Ok... I've been looking for a good crossbody bag for awhile and need some help. I've got the legacy swingpack but am looking for something larger that would work well when I'm running around with my kids. I have a couple of crossbody bags but would like something a bit different than what I have. Does anyone here have a large duffle or wear the bleeker duffles as crossbody bags? If so, how are they working? Do they feel heavy or are they okay? Do they stick out too far? This has been kind of an ongoing search for me, so I'd appreaciate any advice... Thanks!