imo, it depends on occasion
in the everyday, i dress for other women. most men don't understand trends and fashionable. at least, in my group of friends. they like solid, neutral colours. nothing funky.
when it comes to a special occasion (date, cocktail party) where dresses/gowns are in order, i think women dress for men.
that being said, in general, i probably care more about what other women think of my outfit than other men.
I agree!!