What about something like this? this is an ebay listing. You could redo the chairs in a girly fabric? The styles seem to match better.
It's a baughman era dining table and chairs (to help you search if you like it)
That one is ok but not really my style... I am thinking perhaps something like this, (don't laugh). These are from Muniz, some of their stuff is kind of expensive though...
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Also, do you really think the second white set on the previous page, (the white round table and chairs) aren't feminine and frilly? I thought they could be if I pair them with candles or flowe pieces and pink frilly stuff... Or maybe not pink, but just feminine pieces