the Elisa Atheniense Bowling Shoulder or the Tabitha Soldier i personally like the style of the 1st one, but just not sure of the color (it's a bit too dark!?) and the pebbled leather. while i think the 2nd one is also kinda cute, some ppl have said that it looks a bit old lady-ish, like a Mom's bag. haha. what do you all think? thanks for your opinions~!!!