bagnshoofetish said:my sane friends have ocassionally asked me where I got something, or complimented some article of clothing and have asked if I minded if they got the same thing. sometimes, I'll actually go out and buy it for them. and they don't wear/use the item in front of me. now THATS normal.
EXACTLY!! my friends now ask where i get my stuff and compliment, and sometimes wear similar styles.. but not the exact same thing. and that's totally fine with me.
of course, since all my friends are str8 guys that know and are cool that i'm gay.. so if we ARE caught wearing the same thing, we're the butt of the jokes for the entire week (not day! week!) along the lines of, "did you guys call each other before you came out here?" or "so what color are you gonna wear tomorrow? blue? cuz so-and-so said he's wearing green." -____- haha.