OK, so in my auctions on eBay, I ship everywhere. no problem. Overseas can send me paypal, MO, WU, whatever. money is money and my job is to please the customer and make sales. so- I found something I want really bad overseas. (its not the anis, i wish). anyhow- the seller will not ship to hawaii. She has insinuated that she won't even bend the the rules a little bit for me unless I am an ex-patriat living in America. no joke guys. anyone ever had to deal with this? I speak her language fluently... I could probably lie. and then send her a MO or something. she will not take paypal at all... *sigh* me want.