Are you the "gotta have it now" and do what you have to and get it? You know...scheme, sneak, get it before the next buyer, use your attributes, call every boutique you can, go to a reseller...whatever it takes!!! OR Are you the "patient"...I can wait as long as it takes kind of person? You know...plan, ask lots of questions, wait your turn, get on the list (LOL), find someone to help you, talk forever about your bag, keep saving, research more...believe that one bag will eventually come to you!!!