I want the large Chocolate Carly so badly but in my mind the what if's keep popping up! I've never spent that much on a fabric purse before.........so What if I spill my Diet Coke on it? What if anything gets spilled on it? I want to buy it because I want to carry it as my main bag. I'm not that rough on purses but I have been known to throw my purse in my car or put it on the ground. I am so in with it but I want it to be my purse. I don't want to have to treat it with kid gloves. So how durable are they? What about stains? Do those of you with fabric bags that cost $$$$ watch every move you make? Help! Thanks!