I've been debating between the two. DH said I could get one for my birthday. I tried on a petit noe in epi the other day at the Beverly Hills store and I loved the size and shape. The bv seems more practical to me though...actually the bh does, but I'm not as in love with it. I have an almost 2 year old so I'm lugging around a few diapers, wipes and sippy cups too. I'm debating between those two and a Coach shoulder tote (is this the wrong forum)? Coach - PEBBLED LEATHER SHOULDER TOTE Anyway, and advice would be appreciated. Thanks!