I've been reading some threads lately, and the subject of cheating has come up a couple times. Lead me to re-examine what I considered cheating. In essence, any connection, be it physical or emotional, outside of the committed, exclusive relationship. Here's what counts as cheating to me: 1. Sex (any kind, i.e. oral....) 2. A strong emotional bond; a form of love yet not manifested 3. Suggestive/erotic e-mail or letters 4. Raunchy dancing (like "sex on the floor" type dancing) 5. Something simple like holding hands 6. Secret lunch or dinner dates (something he "forgot" to tell you) 7. Erotic massage I know there's a 8,9 and 10. But can't think of any. I feel like I'm being anal with my list already. But these are the things that would truly hurt me if my BF or husband were caught doing. So..............what's on your list????